Tuesday, 28 May 2019

POETIC PERSONIFICATION


I used to belong to a group called Poet’s Potpourri in Abbotsford, B.C.  Donna Bishop, who led the group, was adamant that poetry was a performing art.  So every year, she would arrange a special event where all members and other poets from the Lower Mainland could “perform” their poetry with a microphone in front of a live audience.  The year I read the following poem, it was the first time I was on a stage, with a microphone, reading to a live audience.  The poem was well received, and one listener did tell me that what I wrote was so true, so very true, and he knew that from his own experience.

 

 

SWEET BETRAYAL


Alone with the full moon
He dreamed of Love
To ease the pain of singleness
A sweet caress, to guide each lonely step

His longing drew her to him
She kissed him softly and eased his pain
She made him feel a man again
The Lady he turned to in his need

He gave his life to her
Inch by inch, hour by hour
Through the years
By her obsessed
She him possessed

He gave up all to be with she
His family, fortune, self-respect
To keep his love for her intact
From all the world he would retract
His only choice to live for her

At first, she loved him well
She held him close and stopped his pain
Always there to meet his need
Then he desired more and more
For when apart
His empty life
Was more than he could bear

He was by her bewitched
No children would she bear him
No friends would she allow
Unless she had dominion, before her they must bow

He trusted her with all his heart
And did not see
His loss of Soul
When perilous hands
Covered up his eyes

Nor did he see
His loss of strength and potency
Living just for she

The blindness he embraced
Loving and trusting her
Manhood lost
And mind diminished
Accepting all that she might do

In blinding trust he did allow
The rope she tied around his neck
Knowing she would kill him
Powerless to resist
He died of love
For the Lady in the bottle.

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By Lisa A. Hatton



Tuesday, 21 May 2019

SHORT AND SWEET


I wrote the following short observation five years ago.  Still true today.


HUNGER

            The diner was full, every booth occupied.  There were the down and out, who could only afford the all-day breakfast with free coffee.  There were golden agers and seniors out for their weekend brunch.  There were young couples and families getting fortified for Sunday shopping.  There were also the mentally ill; one lady waving to imaginary friends, and one man in earnest conversation with a voice in his head.  The aroma of bacon and fresh coffee evoked our longing for sustenance.

            Middle aged waitresses ran incessantly from tables to kitchen to till.  People lined up to come in, and then lined up to pay when they left.

            We sat at one booth by the window, he and I.  We sat across from each other, the table between us, not like when we first met.  Then we always sat next to each other, touching, even at a booth.  Now we sat separately, lost in our own individual thoughts.

            Gazing around, my mind rambled to the chores waiting at home, then to the list in my purse of needed groceries, and eventually to pending surgery three weeks hence.  Thinking of the surgery, and my surgeon, and the confidence I felt that the outcome would be successful, I smiled.

            The man across the table perked up and his sharp blue eyes locked on mine.  “What?  What were you thinking?  Why are you smiling?”

            After twenty years, we still hunger for each other’s smile. 
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By Lisa A. Hatton

Tuesday, 14 May 2019

ALL YOU CAN DO IS LAUGH!


It is said that you may please some of the people all the time, all of the people some of the time, but not all the people all the time.  This became very evident to me when I lived inside a co-op housing complex that itself was inside a strata townhouse complex.  There were two governing bodies with many, many bylaws.  The following story came from my experience working as the Assistant Property Manager of the strata complex.  I hope you find it as wryly funny as I did.

 

 

One Man’s Solution


            Once a month, on the fourth Monday, our townhouse complex has its regularly scheduled Strata Council Meeting.  This always takes place in our own Activity Centre at 7:00 p.m., after most people have already had a long day.  We have seven elected Council Members who have decided that Meetings should be open and above-board, and not at all secretive.  All owners are invited to show an interest and attend these Meetings.

            Thank goodness they don’t.  We have about one thousand residents spread through 305 townhouses and we couldn’t possibly schedule a Meeting long enough for everybody to have their say.  It’s my job to record the minutes of these Meetings.

            In September our Meeting received a delegation of residents from Cornwall Court, which is the longest cul-de-sac in the complex.  The fourth item on our agenda is “Good & Welfare”, which means any resident can bring forth any topic of concern.  I faithfully note all complaints in the minutes so issues raised by concerned residents can be recorded for posterity.  This delegation from Cornwall Court arrived with a petition in hand.

            “The next item on our Agenda is ‘Good and Welfare’.  Does anyone from the floor wish to raise any concerns?” our Chairman, Henry, asked.

            “Yes, we do.  We have a petition here to request speed bumps be installed on Cornwall Court.  It’s signed by 32 residents on that street and we are all fed up with people speeding down that road and around the cul-de-sac.  We have small children, sometimes outside playing or riding their bikes, and we want something done for their safety,” one angry resident informed Council.

            “May we have your name and unit number for the minutes, please?  And may we see the petition?” Henry asked.

            “I’m Scott Penner from Unit #286, and here’s the petition.  We have complained to Joe at the Office about the speeding several times, but management doesn’t seem to be able to do anything about this.  They can only fine someone if I rat on a neighbour and give them the Unit number.  I really think speed bumps would be the better solution.  That way all vehicles would have to slow down,” Mr. Penner informed Council.

            Henry briefly glanced at the petition and then looked askingly at the other Council Members.  “Would someone on Council like to make a motion that we install three speed bumps on Cornwall Court?”

            Paul made the motion and Ruth seconded it, and it was carried.  Henry always moves very quickly through “Good and Welfare”.  The delegation left and we were free to continue the Meeting without interruption from the floor.

            Looking at Joe, our manager who worked on-site in our own office, Henry asked him, “Will you have the speed bumps installed?  Other areas in here have them, so we can’t really say no.  Wish it was that easy pleasing everyone else.”

            The next day Joe called several paving companies for quotes on installation of speed bumps and received prices that varied greatly.  Always pinching pennies, Joe accepted the lowest quote and arranged for the speed bumps to be installed the following day.  Two days after the petition was received, the job was completed.

            “How’s that for getting things done?” Joe asked me, very pleased with himself.

            Council and management were all pleased until the next Council Meeting.  October’s minutes read like this:

MINUTES – Oct./91
4.               GOOD & WELFARE:
Unit #290 – complained of new speed bumps on Cornwall Court.  Resident can’t get his wheelchair over them as they are too high.

Unit #294 – complained of new speed bumps.  Children have to walk to end of the road before they can ride in parent’s car, which bottoms out over the speed bumps when passengers in car.

Unit #300 – Council Member complains speed bumps are too high and she can’t drive her sports car down to her Unit without damaging her bumpers or muffler and tailpipe.

Unit #270 – elderly resident complains we never had his permission to install speed bumps and they are too high for him to ride his bicycle over.  He is consequently deprived of pleasurable exercise.

Tom’s Towing stated they would no longer patrol Cornwall Court for illegally parked vehicles as the speed bumps are too high and cause too much wear and tear on tow trucks and escalate the possibility of damage being done to vehicles being towed.

Council requested that Joe investigate having the speed bumps reduced in height


            Joe had that done.  The paving company that installed the speed bumps was able to shave about six inches off the top of them.  That seemed to solve the problem until the next meeting where the minutes read:

MINUTES – Nov./91

4.               GOOD & WELFARE:
Unit #286 – Scott Penner complained that snow removal was not being done on Cornwall Court this winter.  It was done regularly last winter, but not this year.  Mr. Penner demanded an explanation.

Joe informed Council and Mr. Penner that the snow plow will not go where there are any speed bumps because they damage equipment, and the location of speed bumps cannot be ascertained by the snow plow when they are covered by snow and consequently cannot be avoided.  Speed bumps were non-existent on Cornwall Court the previous winter, but pose a problem this year.  However, Joe said that lack of snow removal will definitely help in deterring speeders as Mr. Penner had previously requested.

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By Lisa A. Hatton


Tuesday, 7 May 2019

FOR MOTHER'S DAY


I wrote the following story when my mother had moved to a nursing home.  It was published in July of 2005 by Today’s Senior Newsmagazine.  She has since passed away and is now a beloved memory for me to keep.

 

MINE TO KEEP


            I have never wanted to be keeper of the past.  But each time my parents downsized I was expected to take all things my Mother could not bear to lose forever, such as furniture, artwork, ornaments, knickknacks, clothing and linens.  My house overflows with her past.  And even though she is losing her memory, I must keep these things and remember for her.

            Most recently she has moved from an apartment to a nursing home and now I have a giant box of old photos to keep.  It sits in my spare bedroom and any time I open the door, it chastises me for not paying attention.  Now once a week I visit the box as I visit my Mother, the obedient child being dutiful.

            Part of me rebels to the extent that I will not let my Mother escape her past so easily.  Each time I visit her, I visit the box first and take a handful of photos with me.  In her room we sit with the photos on a table between us and I make her look at each one.  “Who is this person, Mom?  Where was this photo taken?  What year was it?”  And I write down pertinent details on the back of each photo.  She can remember her distant past, but not what day of the week it is today.

            I am determined that if I must keep these pictures, then I must know the people in them.  And my knowledge must be recorded for the generations that come after me.

            Last Saturday we went through many photos that had been saved by her Mother, my Grandmother.  Most we were able to identify.  My great grandmother, great aunts and uncles, pictures in England, pictures in Canada.  There is a picture of the Winnipeg flood, and one taken in Edmonton of Princess Elizabeth and her husband, Phillip, before she became our Queen.

            We are down to several pictures of unknown young men in British World War I uniforms.  On the back of one is written “To Dearest Olive, Love, Marty”.  My Mother had no relatives named Marty.  She thinks these men in uniform were former boyfriends of her own Mother who was just a teenager during the First World War.

            I know the collection in my box of photos gives me a pictorial history of a whole century.  So I will identify and record and catalogue and I will be the keeper of this past.  As I sat with my Mother, I could feel the presence of all these departed souls.  They were in the room with us, pleased to be remembered, perhaps reminding my Mother she is not forgotten and will one day be joining them.

            And yes, I know too that my Mother will one day step into my own memory in a photo and that will be all I have left of her.  So of course, I will be the keeper of this past.

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By Lisa A. Hatton